Dating a man with attention deficit disorder
My home is a bio-hazard because I am no longer physically able to clean, he is unwilling to clean and refuses to allow me to hire someone to help.If you are considering marriage with an Asburger’s person, my recommendation, after having lived it for these many years, is to RUN IN THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION!If you are willing to give up your every hope, dream, and ambition for someone who is unable or unwilling to be a partner in your marriage and does not appreciate you or your sacrifice, then a life with an Aspie spouse is for you.If I had known what I was getting into, I would never have gone on the first date.You also need to consider this–what if YOU become seriously ill and need to lean on him?
It was exposed to me almost every day and I had trained myself not to pay attention because it was too stressful for me. He did not respond to my requests to stop, but increased the cruel verbal abuses. I called our friend; the only person who knew the truth. He never expressed any remorse.” ♦ have lived with an AS spouse for 14 years. AS individuals learn coping behaviors that allow them to ‘act’ their way through social situations and personal intimacy, but that they don’t actually invest any feelings or emotions in them. He is a high-achieving professional but lacked the capacity to understanding that his actions and words were deeply damaging.You have no idea how hurtful it is to be married, or in a relationship, with someone like YOU! “ ♦ ays, weeks, months, go by where you go into hiding. Because you have a neurologically typical brain, heart, soul. We have been married almost 37 years and the stress and sacrifice of dealing 24/7 with a man/child has cost me my health, my job, college, and my sanity.Yeah, get it tattooed on your forehead or whatever, I don’t care what you do, just stick with your own kind and stop destroying people!!! Staying away, staying silent, refusing to engage in any conversation that may possibly divulge a remnant of feeling, brought some semblance of peace. While dating, I thought he was just quirky and shy.Yeah they’re all different yeah yeah, I know, some are worse than others. After moving to our current home 30 years ago, he refused to move to another state, city or house.Now I am disabled in a non-accessible house and my life is a living hell.